The One Thing That Can Ruin Your Life, And How You Can Stop It From Happening

The One Thing That Can Ruin Your Life, And How You Can Stop It From Happening

 

The One Thing That Can Ruin Your Life, And How You Can Stop It From Happening

Justin Jahanshir

May 12, 2017
18 mins | Life Challenges

I love chocolate. In fact, I would identify myself as a dessert lover in general, but if you were to place three desserts in front of me and one of them contained chocolate, there is a significant likelihood I’m going with the chocolate option. One of the disheartening things about a love for chocolate is the reality that regularity in its consumption will lead to an increase in both desire and my waistline.

It’s interesting what studies have discovered about how things like chocolate and sugar impact our brain. An article in the Huffington Post, This Is What Sugar Does To Your Brain, writes:

“When a person consumes sugar, just like any food, it activates the tongue’s taste receptors. Then, signals are sent to the brain, lighting up reward pathways and causing a surge of feel-good hormones, like dopamine, to be released. Sugar “hijacks the brain’s reward pathway,” neuroscientist Jordan Gaines Lewis explained.”

The article goes on to identify some of the problems that result from an excess of sugar including impaired memory and learning skills, increase in depression and anxiety, and even age-related cognitive decline and dementia. So what does sugar’s impact on the brain have to do with ruining your life?

Acceptance and consumption of sinful activity becomes a pathway to spiritual dysfunction.

The reality is that just as sugar has a powerful impact on our brain with various results on our body, there is an even greater threat to your life that you will face each day and if that threat isn’t put to death daily, it will slowly kill you. That threat comes in many forms, but the Bible calls it the daily threat of sin.

Sin is not small

It’s easy to treat sin like chocolate (or any other food you enjoy). We think that small doses over time will have little or no impact on our lives. Not only is this type of thinking in opposition to what Scripture points us toward, but if not challenged, this kind of lifestyle will lead to devastating results whether you are a Christian or not. Just as a regular consumption of sugary foods will lead to a host of ailments, acceptance and consumption of sinful activity becomes a pathway to spiritual dysfunction.

The question then becomes, how do we engage in the daily killing of sin and temptations that can so easily entangle our lives? Whether it’s the temptation to pursue unethical practices in our workplace, engage in unhelpful conversation or occupy our time with activities that would grieve the work of the Spirit within us, each day we choose the level at which we will either fight sin or tolerate its involvement in our lives.

Each day we choose the level at which we will either fight sin or tolerate its involvement in our lives.

If you’re a believer in Jesus Christ, Scripture calls you to wage war against sin. The goal is not perfection but direction which means our aim is to be more and more like Christ. And if we are going to break the power of sin in our lives, we must be aware of the strategies the enemy uses to blind us from our sin so that we are ultimately defeated by it.

In John Owen’s book “Overcoming Sin and Temptation,” editor Kelly Kapic provides one of the most insightful definitions illuminating the strategy of sin:

“Sin moves by drawing the mind away from God, enticing the affections and twisting desires and paralyzing the will, thus stunting Christian growth.”

Breaking the power of sin begins by identifying sin’s key strategies

 Sin’s key strategy #1: Hijack the mind.

It all begins in the mind. Notice in the article above that even sugar begins by triggering our taste receptors sending signals to our brain. Addiction to sugar is actually driven by the mind! So too does sin begin its quiet, strategic plan to capture our mind.

According to the National Science Foundation, our brains produce as many as 50,000 thoughts a day! They also identify that “your mindset, in turn, governs your actions…” It’s no surprise then that sin initially targets your thinking; because when it wins your thinking, it directs your actions. Sin works by triggering one sinful thought which left unchallenged leads to much more.

Sin is never satisfied with just a little; it will always demand more.

 Sin’s key strategy #2: Entice the affections.

 Kapic writes that “The goal of the Christian life is not external conformity or mindless action, but a passionate love for God informed by the mind and embraced by the will. So the path forward is not to decrease one’s affections but rather to enlarge them and fill them with “heavenly things.”

Sin is never satisfied with just a little; it will always demand more.

Just as sugar sends reward signals to the brain causing a surge of feel-good hormones, mental and physical engagement in sin triggers our affections. Because we live in a fallen, sinful world, sin will be enticing even to believers. It’s our decision how we respond: entertain those affections or kill them.

When sin is entertained in our lives, we become more infatuated with the darkness and less transformed by the light.

Sin’s key strategy #3: Twist the desires.

Simply put, sin twists definitions so that evil is now good and good is evil. When sin is entertained in our lives, we become more infatuated with the darkness and less transformed by the light. Paul outlines in Romans 1 the result of entertaining sin instead of actively pursuing righteousness. Instead of desiring the good things God has for us, we desire the opposite. Our desires and affections, therefore, become twisted making it very difficult to distinguish good and evil.

Sin’s key strategy #4: Paralyze the will.

When our will becomes paralyzed, although we want to say no to the double fudge brownie, we lack the willpower to say no. In our Christian walk, we no longer experience a driving force to become more like Christ. Sometimes we even become numb to the things of God. We lack his presence and power in our lives. Our desire to know him and experience him becomes dangerously lacking.

Embraced sin makes spiritual growth nearly impossible.

At this point we have filled our lives with things in such opposition to Him, those things begin to control our thinking and actions instead of God’s presence. Instead of being full of the Spirit characterized by love, joy peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23), we become overly critical, negative, fearful, pessimistic and lack inner peace.

If you don’t commit to breaking the power of sin in your life, sin’s power will eventually break you.

Sin’s ultimate aim: stunting Christian growth.

The end goal for sin is complete destruction of a person both physically and spiritually. Embraced sin makes spiritual growth nearly impossible. And if you don’t commit to breaking the power of sin in your life, sin’s power will eventually break you.

The good news is that we don’t have to let sin control our lives. The Bible provides a beautiful solution for how we are delivered from temptation and freed from the power of sin.

Combat strategy #1: Guard your heart and mind.

The Apostle Paul instructs us to “take every thought captive to obey Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5b). Paul doesn’t settle for some thoughts but recognizes that if every thought is not taken captive, we will be defeated. It begins with your thinking and what your mind engages in. This is determined by what you feed your mind. Both the Proverbs and the Apostle Paul provide the solution for breaking the power of sin in our minds:

Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. (Proverbs 4:23)

Affections are a gift from God. They are not to be suppressed, but rather expressed rightly.

And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. (Philippians 4:8)

The Proverbs instruct us to guard our heart – because this is a battle and we must be prepared to fight sin. Paul then tells us how to fight – taking control our thinking and focusing on the right things.

 Either you determine your affections or sin will determine them for you.

Combat strategy #2: Pursue right affections.

Affections are a gift from God. They are not to be suppressed, but rather expressed rightly. Here is how Jesus instructs us to pursue right affections:

You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.” (Matthew 22:37)

The Bible often interchanges the language of heart and affections. The first area we are to love God is with all of our heart…in other words, our affections should be most enticed by our love for God. We are most excited about God’s way of doing life. Because the reality is that either you will determine your affections or sin will determine them for you.

Combat strategy #3: Fill your life with the right things,

Ephesians 5:18 instructs us: Don’t be drunk with wine, because that will ruin your life. Instead, be filled with the Holy Spirit.” Winning the battle against sin will be determined ultimately by what you fill your life with, and Scripture calls us to fill our life with the Holy Spirit.

The Bible provides a way for us to escape the entrapment and devastation sin brings and it’s not simply a strategy, but the person of the Holy Spirit. God desires to help any person who will look to him. Here is how Paul describes this truth in Romans 8:13:

“For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.”

The key then to putting sin to death each day in our lives is walking closely with the Holy Spirit.

The key then to putting sin to death each day in our lives is walking closely with the Holy Spirit. Paul unpacks this principle further in Ephesians 6:17:

“Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.”

The weapon that is used for killing is the sword of the Spirit which is the word of God. We kill sin by filling our mind and our lives with the word of God. Because according to Hebrews 4:12,

“…the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.”

Therefore, as we engage in God’s word and pursue the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives, our minds are drawn to what pleases him, our affections are rightly developed, producing godly desires and our will is to become more like Christ, thus exploding Christian growth.

Regardless of what sin you need to kill today, know that God is fighting with you, and with his help, you will be victorious over sin!

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Why Encouragement Counts

Why Encouragement Counts

 

Why Encouragement Counts

Savannah Gibson

Apr 7, 2017
8 mins | Life Challenges

My first year of college was a bit challenging. I was walking through a lonely season due to an unexpected, but needed, transfer to another dorm room during my second semester. Because of this, my friend group drastically changed. One night I remember feeling very alone and discouraged as I knelt beside my bed. I asked God to, “please send someone to encourage me,” to remind me I was not on my own.

Within a couple of hours, that simple prayer was answered. To my amazement, a piece of paper appeared from under my door. Curious as to what it was, I opened it immediately. The words written were exactly what I needed to hear. Words of hope. Words that reminded me I was not alone. Words that gave me the strength to face another day. Words of encouragement.

We all battle moments of self-doubt, insecurity, and discouragement; moments where we can feel like giving up rather than going on. And most often, all a person needs is a little encouragement to continue.
The definition of the word “encourage” is
“To inspire with courage, spirit, or hope.”

When we encourage someone, we are imparting courage to them.

Over the years psychologists have studied words and found that they have a profound effect on the human brain. The truth is, words have power. Words can either breath life or death into the soul, build up someone’s spirit or tear it down. They either encourage or discourage – there is no middle ground.
Research has proven that brain function is at its best and quality of life is at its peak when we are processing positive rather than negative words.

Words either encourage or discourage – there is no middle ground.

In their article, The Most Dangerous Word in the World, researchers Andrew Newberg, M.D. and Mark Waldman state the following:

“If I were to put you into an fMRI scanner – a huge donut-shaped magnet that can take a video of the neural changes happening in your brain – and flash the word “NO” for less than one second, you’d see a sudden release of dozens of stress-producing hormones and neurotransmitters. These chemicals immediately interrupt the normal functioning of your brain, impairing logic, reason, language processing, and communication.”

Additional research done by Newberg and Waldman reveals,
Positive words, such as “peace” and “love” can alter the expression of genes, strengthening areas in our frontal lobes and promoting the brain’s cognitive functioning. They propel the motivational centers of the brain into action…”

Positive words are difficult to remember. Negative words are difficult to forget.

It’s interesting to note that the Smithsonian Institute in Washington DC includes a display of several articles President Abraham Lincoln had with him on the night of his assassinated. One of the articles is a worn-out newspaper clipping which celebrated his accomplishments as president. It reads: “Abe Lincoln is one of the greatest statesmen of all time.”

It is amazing that even the president of the United States needed regular positive reinforcement in his life, if left unchallenged, negativity can permeate and overcome any of us.

If you’re living and breathing, you need encouragement!

The truth is that if you’re living and breathing, you need encouragement! No matter a person’s age, position or stature, as human beings, we are wired with the innate desire and need for encouragement.
An encouraging word spoken at the right time can make all the difference in a person life – just like it did for President Lincoln.

Proverbs 25:11(CEV) says:
“The right word at the right time is like precious gold set in silver.”

There are few things more valuable than an encouraging word.

The words spoken into your life today have a tremendous impact on your life tomorrow.

Frankly, it is very difficult for someone to achieve a goal without encouragement and support. Some of the greatest influencers have been those who have received support and strength from others.

Many have recalled the friendship between two of history’s great authors, C.S Lewis and J.R.R Tolkien. In fact, Tolkien was highly influenced by Lewis encouraging him to write The Lord of the Rings. The encouraging words of C.S. Lewis spurred Tolkien on toward what has become a literary masterpiece read by millions.

Encouragement is a gift that we all have the ability and resource to give.

Encouragement is a gift that we all have the ability and resource to give. There is no I.Q. requirement or special talent needed to be an encourager. All you have to do is have a desire to use your life and your words to encourage the people positioned around you.

Every day we come in contact with people who are craving encouragement. Those who are walking through their personal “dorm room” valleys. Although we may not always know what they are facing, our encouragement may be exactly what they need to make it through to the other side.

Encouragement is not natural; therefore it must be cultivated.

So, what are some ways we become carriers of courage -building up the hope of those around us?

1. Smile

Did you know that smiling is contagious? It might not just alter a person’s mood, but could change their life.

2. Speak Encouragement

There are millions of people on the planet who feel overlooked and forgotten. And with a simple hello and encouraging word, you can let someone know that they are seen and cared about.

3. Write it out

Spoken words are powerful, but there is something special about written words – they last forever. A simple card or text reminds someone that they are valuable and being thought of.

4. Compliment

Entering your day with the mindset of what can you give rather than what can you get.

Each of these things is very simple to do, yet they can have a profound impact on someone’s life. They could give them the courage to keep going, to pursue their dreams, to know they are not forgotten and that they have a purpose. Who comes to mind in your world that you can encourage? Is it your spouse, your child, your next door neighbor, your coworker?

One leader asked a simple question we should all consider, “If the people around you depend on your words for nourishment, are they dying of malnutrition or are they thriving?”

The truth is that our words matter. We make a choice each day how we will use our words to build up or tear down. Start today. Make a conscience choice that you are going to use your words to make a difference in someone’s life.

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